Published July 26, 2025
Why Letting Buyers Dictate Lowball Offers Can Cost You the Home
How you start the negotiating process can often make the difference between getting your dream home and losing it in today's cutthroat real estate market. Even though every buyer wants to get the best deal, it can backfire if you insist on making a lowball offer, especially if your agent has advised against it.
We at The Windrow Group have been assisting buyers and sellers in the Delmava Coast real estate market for more than 25 years. Among the most frequent mistakes we observe? Buyers who allow their emotions or overconfidence to dictate the offer process often end up losing the house altogether.
The Seller’s Perspective: First Impressions Matter
A seller's opinion of the buyer may be instantly damaged when they receive an offer that is much less than their asking price, especially in a market with little inventory or strong comparable sales. A lowball offer conveys the incorrect message—"We don't value your home"—if it is made without sufficient context or explanation.
Frequently, that first impression endures. The seller might feel insulted or suspicious—and be less inclined to haggle—even if the buyer returns later with a better offer. They will almost always wait for a more considerate offer, even if it is only slightly more expensive.
What’s at Stake: More Than Just the Deal
When buyers go against expert advice and push for unrealistic offers, several negative outcomes are common:
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Immediate rejection. Many lowball offers are declined without a counter.
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Damaged rapport. Sellers may become disengaged and stop taking the buyer seriously.
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Lost opportunity. Another buyer swoops in with a stronger offer—and wins.
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Wasted time. Energy spent on inspections, showings, and paperwork ends up being for nothing.
Negotiation isn’t just a numbers game—it’s also about tone, timing, and mutual respect.
Why Your Realtor’s Guidance Matters
Writing contracts is just one aspect of what a competent real estate agent does. Without going over budget, they offer strategic insight into what it takes to succeed. We have closed more than 1,000 deals at The Windrow Group, and we understand how to craft offers that lead to opportunities. A qualified Realtor can help you position yourself for success in the following ways:
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Market expertise. To create reasonable offers, we consider comparable properties and current pricing trends.
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Psychology of sellers. We know how to use flexibility, speed, or other terms to entice sellers in addition to price.
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Strategy for negotiating. We know how to make your offer the most alluring, even if it isn't the highest.
Final Thought: Trust the Process, Trust Your Agent
Buying a home is a major investment—and an emotional journey. But if you’ve chosen a seasoned professional to guide you, lean into their experience. They’re not just opening doors—they’re opening possibilities.
Listen to your Realtor’s advice. It could be the difference between simply attending showings… and becoming a homeowner.
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